Start again and be grateful!

So, long time no blog posts. Again! Lately my blog has just been at the bottom of the to-do list once again. And this time, I’m not even going to think about mentally beating myself up for that. It’s cool. It’s what needed to happen. There has been A LOT of change in my life since the last post about self-care, and ironically part of my self-care routine this last 6 weeks has been to not stress about blogging and not put too much pressure on myself to progress in my coaching journey too quickly.

A brief update: I got engaged to my wonderful partner Stuart (yay!), started writing a music teaching book and this week we bought a house! On top of that, there has been holidays, work, study, wedding planning and some more health stuff going on. So it’s been quite busy and I haven’t been placing too much pressure on myself because I know that looking after myself, especially allowing time to rest and relax, is the most important thing and is what allows me to get all those other important and urgent jobs done.

This weekend has been pretty amazing and inspiring. I have been reading a lot, coaching and being coached, doing some big life planning with the love of my life about our future and some business planning with my bestie and business coach Maddi. Like I said, this week Stuart and I bought a house (ok, so we are in the process of finalising it…it hasn’t actually all happened yet, but we’re well on the way) and this has really forced us to sit down and get focused on our future in a more detailed way than ever before. We had our first ever formal ‘money date’ this morning, and it was wonderful. More on this in a future blog. Even more exciting is that yesterday Maddi and I began putting steps in place to make our podcast happen. Actually, we recorded two pilot episodes. These may never go to air, but it is the first step and we are both very excited about it. I will definitely keep you updated about this in weeks to come. Hopefully we will launch the podcast by Christmas! Exciting!

So I had been meaning to update the blog all week because there have been a lot of exciting learnings for me this month. What really kick started me getting back into it was a post I read this morning on Naomi Arnold’s site Project Healthy Happy Me. In light of the fun Maddi and I had yesterday recording our podcasts and talking about gratitude and with the encouragement I got from Naomi’s blog post, I decided to start again with my blogging routine and write a little list of all the things I am grateful for this week! πŸ™‚ So here it is:

1. My wonderful fiancΓ© Stuart. He lights up my life and I am so excited about our future together.

2. The knowledge I have. This includes self-knowledge as well as various content specific knowledge. Knowledge is power and it’s so great to acknowledge and feel the sense of empowerment that comes with all forms of knowledge, but especially self-knowledge.

3. Coaching! It’s related to point 2, but I am so grateful for the insights and empowerment I receive from having a coach (or 3!). Yesterday I had a coaching session as the client and it was just fantastic. One of my coaches, Vanessa from Three Sixty Coaching, has helped me feel so empowered and determined to create the life I want. It’s all happening and she has really helped me with it. I also love being a coach and paying it forward to help others create the life they want.

4. Still related, but access to information and resources is a huge gratitude item for me. There are so many incredibly knowledgable people out three. Some of them I am privileged to know and learn from directly, and some I only know indirectly and learn from through their products (books, blogs, podcasts etc). But either way, I love learning and I love having the access to info that the internet provides.

5. My super team of encouragers and inspirers. This primarily includes my sister Naomi and a number of girl friends, including Maddi. Like I said, she and I are about to launch a podcast about life and business and relationships and health and we are very excited. Maddi has two businesses, one as a business coach and consultant and a side project at Cheeky Whispers. Check her our, she’s rad πŸ™‚

6. ABC DigJazz! We have had this playing in our house all morning and it is just so soothing and calming and a perfect back-drop to grown-up conversations about life, money and the future!

7. Flowers! There are fresh roses in a vase next to me that are just SO fragrant. I got them from our garden on Friday. Gorgeous! Jacarandas and silky oaks are in bloom here, as well as all the other beautiful spring blooms. So happy, so inspiring πŸ™‚

8. A tidy house. I am so much more productive when my environment is un-cluttered. I feel like there is always more to do in the de-clutter area but a tidy house is enough for me for now πŸ™‚ With an upcoming move I am sure we will again do the cull of our possessions, and I actually can’t wait!

9. A cool drink on a hot day. There’s a bit of a heat wave going on at the moment, and I am so grateful for the tinkling of ice in my glass that keeps my drink cool next to me. Such a simple thing but so refreshing πŸ™‚

10. Being excited about the future. I feel so lucky to have so many things to look forward to in coming months, including moving into our very own home, getting married, going on a honeymoon, launching a podcast, publishing a book (probably self-published, but hey, it counts!) and continuing to learn and grow. I am very grateful for the great things coming up, and for the perspective that any challenges I’m currently dealing with are also opportunities to grow. Yay!


That’s it from me today, but watch this space for more frequent updates soon πŸ™‚


Grace and peace, y’all!


Ellen x

Debt-free by the end of 2014

So this is a pretty big, audacious goal. But I’ve done a lot of reading that suggests big goals are better because we are more likely to really make the effort to strive for them than little, seemingly easy goals. And I’ve had success with this kind of goal setting, particularly financial goal setting, before.

I have only two debts: A credit card that has a couple of hundred dollars on it and a HECS-HELP student loan that is somewhere around the $13,000 mark…ish. Not exactly sure, will ring the ATO sometime this month to double check that.

The credit card is easy. Like I said, there’s very little on it and I plan to have it paid off in full when I next get paid. Then the plan is to just pay it off in full every month. I was doing this very well last year but then the extended school holidays happened over Christmas, and as I was temporarily unemployed (teaching contract ended before the end of term last year, then my permanent job didn’t begin until January) I allowed myself to carry a small balance on it. I did end up receiving some vacation pay (although I wasn’t sure when or how much this would be), and I have some savings that I could have dipped into to had I felt the need to avoid this small credit card debt. I chose not to because I simply felt more secure leaving my savings alone and continuing to use my credit card even if I didn’t pay off the entire balance at the end of each month. I felt that using the credit card was actually more of a disincentive to spend than dipping into my savings. With the credit card I knew there would be interest charges, so it made me think a lot more before using it for purchases. Dipping into my savings would not provide the same disincentive and therefore I believe I would have ended up spending more. So this debt is not a problem at all because it was planned for and the balance will be back to $0 within the month.

The HECS loan, on the other hand, is sort of looming over my head a bit. In Australia we are very lucky that we have the option to defer our student loans and that if you aren’t earning enough, you don’t have to pay it back. It is common to hear people say that it is the best debt a person can ever have. Payments are taken automatically out of my pay and there are no hefty interest charges. There isn’t actually any interest charged on the debt but it gets ‘indexed’ each year. I also don’t have that much debt, compared to some people. I could ignore it completely and it would be eventually paid off simply through automatic deductions from my pay.

For these reasons, whenever I’ve mentioned that I want to pay it off, a large proportion of people think I’m being foolish. People have told me not to worry because, as just mentioned, it will basically take care of itself. People have also told me to invest my money instead because it will earn me more money that I would save by paying off my HECS. People also say that if I just save money and leave it in a low-interest savings account I will still be better off.Β Some people have also told me not to even bother paying it off at all! Generally these are people who were beneficiaries of the free university education offered in Australia in the 70s and they still believe it should be free. I see where they are coming from…but the reality is times have changed and it isn’t free.

In the end it comes down to my sense of integrity. The HECS-HELP loan is in my name and I want to pay it off. I’m no Lannister, but I do pay my debts. Actually, I try to pay my debts as quickly as possible because I believe debt is akin to slavery. While any of us have debt, we have to keep working so that we can pay it off. If we didn’t have so much debt as a society, it is possible we wouldn’t have to work so hard. There is a whole industry geared towards making us think we need fancy, expensive new things to ‘keep up’, and these shiny new toys are easier and easier to finance. Then just as we’ve paid them off, we need to ‘upgrade’ or ‘update’ and the cycle begins again. However, there is a movement that rejects this in favour of having fewer things and avoiding debt. I am very much in favour of this movement. I believe it is healthier in every way. As such, I want to eliminate my HECS debt as soon as possible. Fortunately my partner feels similarly about his HECS debt, so we are on the same page as far as debt freedom goes.

I know it’s possible to do it this year because in 2012 I acquired a car loan of approximately the same amount as my current HECS debt and I paid it off in 13 months. I was very proud of myself! However, I did probably go a bit overboard and left myself a bit short in other ways in order to do this. I don’t want to repeat that with the HECS debt. But I am going to pay it off this year and here’s why:

When it’s paid off I will be 100% debt free. That means every cent I earn after tax is mine to do with as I choose. I will be under no financial obligations at all and that will be immensely freeing. Β  My monthly expenses will have dropped and that means my savings can increase. Hopefully I will be able to begin investing seriously. Every step I take to pay off this debt increases my net worth. That in itself is worth-while to me.

Paying it off might also mean I am more able to take advantage of opportunities for travel and other opportunities than I otherwise might have been. Furthermore, when I drop back to a part-time teaching load sometime in the future (it’s going to happen, it’s just a question of whether it will be later rather than sooner) that will be much easier to adjust to given that my expenses will be lower. Reducing fixed expenses lowers stress and less stress is good for my health. All of these things to me are far better reasons for paying off my HECS than the ‘it’s the best debt you’ll ever have’ line of reasoning is for not paying it off.

Debt freedom here I come πŸ™‚ Will you join me?